Love Letters To My Sweetheart

How to Write A love Letter to Say I'm Sorry

In order to write a great i'm sorry love letter you must first start with actually being sorry. It is near impossible to let emotions flow through your pen or key strokes if you are faking it. To be able to truly harness the full effect of the letter we want to be as honest as possible and let that special someone know we are truly sorry. Love knows no boundaries. Love knows no pride. Loves knows no end and no beginning. Love just wants to be in both of your hearts. Let him or her know just how sorry you are for making a mess of things.

Besides truly being sorry we want to remain focused and organized. We want to clarify why we are sorry and what we could have done different. I have been in many of relationship fights and one thing I know for sure is usually both sides are wrong and I had my part in it. What we need to focus on for our sorry letter is what we did, and how we could have made it better, and why we want to make it better. Keep the problem solving on your side of the fence. If he or she cares, then they will focus on what they need to fix. 

Remember, when we fight we need to not make it personal.We need to make this love letter very personal however. This is all about throwing up the white flag and asking for forgiveness. Remind them why you are asking for forgiveness with examples of your love. Do not hold back. We may only get one chance at saying we are sorry, so act like it is your last breath at life. Hold nothing back. 

Speak with the softest of tongues and do not get ramped up. The fight or disagreement may still be fresh in your mind but we need to get rid of any animosity we may have still inside of us. The fight was where we tried making our point. The sorry love letter is where we have no point but to make things right. Tell him or her that being right does not matter. Stick to the side of him or her and not your own. When we fight sometimes we weaken trust. When this happens you become like a stranger to the other person. Our job in this letter is to regain that trust and make it stronger. Yes, believe it or not, you can actually come out of this stronger than you were, if you go about it right. This will only happen if you lay down your weapons and come out with hugs. We should have already of done this but if not, here is our chance. 

Do not overkill the message with a bunch of pet names and gushy goo. Speak from the heart and be truthful. Do not just say what you think they wish to hear, but be genuine and realize you want to do this because it is for the good of both of you. Definitely let love pour through your letter, just do not let that be all your letter is about.

To write an effective i'm sorry love letter, we need to tell a genuine story of love and loyalty. We need to make it clear that the only right we are interested in, is the one that makes things right between us. Love will prevail if we nurture it and do not try to muscle it. Was what you were fighting about really worth it? Will it make a difference in a year? If it does then maybe you should not write this letter. If the fight will not matter in a year then fix it right now! Do not take a chance. I wish you well and I hope I have helped. Write me and let me know how it turns out.

Love Letter To Tell you I love You On Valentines Day

Dear Sweetheart,

Have I ever told you what love means to me especially on Valentines Day? I just wanted to tell you the definition of my love to you on this special day. Here is how I define my love for you. 

Love to me is never hesitating to say im sorry no matter what. Pride should never be a factor in our relationship . Love means I never have to sacrifice anything, instead it's a compromise. I have never felt the "have to in my love for you." Love means to me that i do not have to be perfect as i know you will see past that in which i do not posses. Our relationship breaks through all barriers.Love means to me that I will love you no matter what and have forgiveness in my heart. I do not need to hold a grudge or harbor anger. 

Love means to me that I will stand by you no matter what. I do not have quit in my heart. Our vows were for better or for worse and I meant it. Love means to me that I shall never stop trying to improve. I will never settle in my person as each and every day I will strive to be better. Love means I will fight fair when ever we have a fight!. I will not make things personal just to win a fight. Love means to me that I will make love to you as a gentlemen should. I will satisfy your needs as much as mine. 

Love means to me on Valentines Day that cupid has created a holiday to reward us for the love we share. This day is to mark unending love, happiness and gratefulness since the day we met. For you see on Valentines Day we will be even better than any other day and make love until we are exhausted. Love means to me on Valentines Day that we have 365 more days until we celebrate it again. We must use this day as a reminder every year to freshen up our love no matter how many years it has been. We must maintenance our minds and our hearts like the day we first met. 

What love means to me is that I get to write you letters like this and tell you how much you mean to me. For what love means to me is that I have found my soul mate!

Sign,

Your Lover

Why Do We Spend So Much on Lingerie?

Dear Sex Goddess,

I am sitting here in my office still giggling about last night.  I am laughing about that lingerie you bought and how it was ripped to shreds. What is even funnier is you always look so hot and I tear it off of you as quick as I can. Why do we spend so much on lingerie?

When we make love I must admit I get so excited. Do not get me wrong as you look so hot in all of that sexy lace and silk. The problem is I am like a kid at Christmas time wanting to tear open the package. I can't help myself. I would not give it up for anything, as wow, you were smoking hot last night. I am sorry that I messed up your outfit. If it makes you feel better there are marks on my back from where you bruised me with those high heel boots. You know the ones I called your do-me-boots! Well you definitely did just that. I can hardly sit here and write you this email. It was all worth it though. My only regret is that I can't tell the world how awesome it was. 

The older we get I swear the crazier we get in the bedroom. I am not saying that we are into weird stuff but holly molly it is adventurous. You get sexier every time. Since I ruined your lingerie last night I decided I will do you a favor and go to the Victoria's secret for you and get you a replacement. I know this is generous of me but the women in there are so nice to me. I will do this for the sake of another nights venture. 

I had another idea. I could just go to the store and get 3 bottles of that whip creme in a can again. That way when I tear into your whip cream lingerie it will be tasty and nothing will get wrecked. Oh what the heck, I'll do both the whip creme and the lingerie. What am I 16? I can't believe I feel and act this way. Now I guess i know why we spend so much on Lingerie. 

I am sure you are probably still sleeping as I kept you up all night. Make sure you get plenty of rest as I will be home early tonight. I can't even concentrate here at work so I am coming home for round 2. I miss you so much and I thank you for making my day so awesome. Until tonight my sweetheart.

love,

A Helpless Romantic & lingere destroyer!

What To Do For Her On Valentines Day

What To Do For Her On Valentines Day

I have comprised a list below of ideas for her on Valentines Day. These are suggestions to make her day a special one and show her you care. This day is not about money. It is a day about love and what you can do to show here you love her. Quality is the key here so do not short change this. Some of these ideas may seem corny to you but to her, they will mean so much. Here are my suggestions:

1. Prepare a candlelight dinner for her. Make it yourself. Get out the candles, turn on the music, and break out the wine. Turn off the phones and get rid of the kids for the night if you have them. If you have no where for the kids to go have them stay in their rooms and you set up a table in your bedroom.

2. Have a love letter sent to her special delivery. Make it as sweet as you can and tell her your feelings. Tell her why she is your valentine.

3. Rent a massage table and give her the massage of a life time. There are plenty of how to's on the Internet. 

4. Leave love letters everywhere.

5. Clean the house, the car and anything else she does for you on a daily basis. Today she will not have to worry about this stuff.

6. Brush her hair for as long as she will let you. 

7. A good foot massage will go along way. Take your time and do it right. Use oils or foot scrubs or  anything else you may have.

8. Write her a love story. Make it about you and her and love.

9. Ask for forgiveness for not always being romantic.

10. Take her out and do one of her favorite things even if you hate it.

11. Take her out to dinner, a movie(love /chick flick) and then back for some alone time.

12. Have an hour of for-play with her. No sex is needed until the end.

13. Take a romantic walk somewhere she would like. Bring some wine if possible or a picnic basket if it is not too cold.

14. Play a board game and just talk.

15. If all else fails, take her shopping and let her know how good she looks.

Go for it and do all you can for her. Be her Valentine and don't screw it up!

I have comprised a list below of ideas for her on Valentines Day. These are suggestions to make her day a special one and show her you care. This day is not about money. It is a day about love and what you can do to show here you love her. Quality is the key here so do not short change this. Some of these ideas may seem corny to you but to her, they will mean so much. Here are my suggestions:

1. Prepare a candlelight dinner for her. Make it yourself. Get out the candles, turn on the music, and break out the wine. Turn off the phones and get rid of the kids for the night if you have them. If you have no where for the kids to go have them stay in their rooms and you set up a table in your bedroom.

2. Have a love letter sent to her special delivery. Make it as sweet as you can and tell her your feelings. Tell her why she is your valentine.

3. Rent a massage table and give her the massage of a life time. There are plenty of how to's on the Internet. 

4. Leave love letters everywhere.

5. Clean the house, the car and anything else she does for you on a daily basis. Today she will not have to worry about this stuff.

6. Brush her hair for as long as she will let you. 

7. A good foot massage will go along way. Take your time and do it right. Use oils or foot scrubs or  anything else you may have.

8. Write her a love story. Make it about you and her and love.

9. Ask for forgiveness for not always being romantic.

10. Take her out and do one of her favorite things even if you hate it.

11. Take her out to dinner, a movie(love /chick flick) and then back for some alone time.

12. Have an hour of for-play with her. No sex is needed until the end.

13. Take a romantic walk somewhere she would like. Bring some wine if possible or a picnic basket if it is not too cold.

14. Play a board game and just talk.

15. If all else fails, take her shopping and let her know how good she looks.

Go for it and do all you can for her. Be her Valentine and don't screw it up!

Why I Hate Goodbyes - A Love Letter

Dearest Lover,

I am writing you because it is time we say goodbye. I can't believe I am writing this to you but I feel it is best for both of us. Remember when we first met? I swore I would never let go of you. I never wanted to be without you and here we are 2 years later and I must do just that. Please do not cry as I cannot stand the thought of you feeling sad. I know deep down in your heart you know this is the best as well. 

I do not know why your family does not like me. I have tried everything but I can't take the pressure anymore. I see the disappointment in your eyes as your mother gives me another bad time. I refuse to let you go away with me abandoning your family. Your mother will hold a grudge against you and that would kill you. Please just let me go as that will be the best thing for everyone involved. 

I know I said we would be together forever but sometimes it just does not work out. I hope you will forgive me and not hate me. I mean the best for you. You deserve a life of happiness and that means even if I am not in it. Please know that you were the best thing that ever happened to a guy like me. I can't believe I am saying all of this. I am so chicken as I could not look you in the face and do this. What is wrong with me. I will never have such a beautiful person in my life again like you. 

Why I hate goodbyes is because they are so final. They are the end to something that once was a beautiful beginning. They are so eminent and lasting and you never know will if there ever be a hello again. Why I hate goodbyes is because I am saying it to you and it is the last thing on earth I want to do. You deserve hellos and until next time, no goodbyes.

I know you will find someone better than me and hopefully your family will approve of him. I know you will find happiness and love and be in a better place. I will never forget about you and I will always have you in my heart. You resemble everything right in this world.  Thanks for the best time in my life. I will always love you...........

Signed,

Regretfully

Will you forgive Me Love Letter?

Dear Angel,

Why do we fight so much on things that are so incidental? I do not mean to engage with you but somehow I always do. I do not want to fight with you on things that will not matter in five minutes and so I hope you will forgive me when I say I was wrong.

I know it makes no sense to say I was wrong when I was so right when we were fighting. Sometimes when we fight I just feel angry and do not know why. I can feel it deep inside me and the little voice in my head says make your point loud and clear. We never fight over money or the kids or bills or people, we always seem to fight over a look or a misinterpreted word. What are we doing? We are so wrong for doing this.

I want to make it clear that from here on out I do not care if I am right except for when I correct my mistakes. I want to be right as quickly as I can when that goes on. Everything else will not matter in five minutes or five years. How do we even do this? I am mad in my mind to think we miss out on time we could be loving each other instead we are fighting about a broom or some socks. This is such a travesty and one we must fix. We are passionate lovers and we deserve so much more for each other. I will take the blame in this kind of fighting and that way we can fix it. You are way too precious to me and I feel sick for my part in it.

I hope you will agree with what I am saying and work with me to fix it. We are a team and together we can beat this before we ruin our relationship on not much and very little. I love you so much and I just had to tell you this. I hope you will not take this in the wrong way. I mean every word from the bottom of my heart.

Sign,

A New Me 

Top Love Names For My Sweetheart & Worst Ones

Choose your words wisely as the right word will score with your Princess and the wrong name will have you out the door. Women love cute names but they can also spoil the mood if you try and use the wrong one. Pet names as they are commonly called are meant to give a visual to your feelings towards your true love. Although they are called a pet name, no one really wants to be treated like a pet. they are meant to signify an alter personality when you two are together. They magnify a feeling. I have comprised a short list below of the best and worst names according to my opinion. Please leave me a comment and tell me your best and worst ones. I commonly use these names in my love letters. try one out and see if she / He responds.

Top Love Names:

1. Lover

2. Baby

3. Sweetheart

4. Baby Doll

5. Honey

6. Sweetie

7. Princess

8. Love

9. Honey Bunny

10. Teddy Bear

11. My Love

12. Pumpkin

13. Angel

14. Darlin

15. Love Of My Life

16. Dearest

17. Honey Bun

18. Cutie Pie

19. Honey bunch

20. Sugar

21. Butter Cup

22. Sugar Daddy

23. Big Guy

24. Baby Cake

25. Patootie

26. Sugar Momma

27. Hot Stuff

28. My Man

29. My woman

30. Doll face

31. Sexy Girl

32. Beautiful

33. Hottie

Worst Lover names:

1. Your Ex-Girlfriends name or boyfriend's name

2. Old lady

3. Old man

4. Snookums

5. Dumpling

6. Sexy Mamma

7. Flame

8. Lamb or Lamb Chops

9. My Little Pet

10. Treasure

11. Prize

12. Tootsie

13. Momma

14. Daddy

15. Dream Boat

16. Stud Muffin

17. Sugar Lips

18. Casanova

19. Don Juan

20. Venus

21. Goddess

22. Kitty Cat

23. Love Slave

24. Big Daddy

Valentines Day Love Letter For Her

Dear Gorgeous,

I know I am never very romantic when it comes to holidays or life in general but this year I thought I would change that so I am writing you this love letter to express my deepest love for you. I am a lucky man to have a girl like you and i want to do everything i can to keep you. You put the heart in Valentines Day and I love you for that.

I am grateful for all the romance to try in our life. I smile every time I think about some of the fun ideas you have had. I get giddy when it comes to the naughty ones. I cry at the ones that upset you because I was too dense to understand what you were doing. You are so awesome with all of those things so I am hoping this year you will leave it up to me. That is why I have sent this to you in the mail two weeks early. I want this year to be the pay back year you deserve. I will handle all of the romance. 

I know what you may be thinking and that is what is up with me? I don't blame you and I deserve it. I have not been what I was suppose to be in our relationship. Baby, life just gets going so fast sometimes and we take our eye off the ball. I did not mean to do what I have been doing, I just wasn't smart enough to figure it out until now. If you will give me a second chance I will become your love machine. I can change and I am changing. 

I will probably not be as good as you are at all those cool things you plan but I hope you will give me an A for effort at least until I get the swing of things. I will improve as time passes. I have something great to work for. 

I just need to know one thing.......will you be my Valentine? For my Valentine I am gonna cook, clean and do massages for her. For my Valentine, the lights will be down low, the candles lit, and nothing but a soothing voice will be heard on that night. We are gonna lock the doors, turn off the phones and then I will prepare to make love to you with all my passion as this Valentines day will be remembered. 

Well, this is my plan and i'm sticking to it. I hope I make you a proud wife. 

Love,

He Finally gets It!

I Am Sorry Love Letter (2)

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All I know I learned in Kindergarden. I was taught when you are wrong you apologize. Since I really messed up this time, one wasn't enough, so I am sorry one more time for safety.

sign,

Hopeless

I Am Sorry I Lied

From the first moment I met you I knew I loved you so much. It was never even a question in my mind or in my heart. I felt every emotion a man can have when he is in love. More than I could have ever even imagined. When I saw you the other day I was reminded just how much that was. How did I ever let you slip away? I am sorry I lied when I said I will love you forever no matter what.

Why was it so important to me that you had done wrong? I let something so little build up into something so big and now we have let our love slip away. Now it seems you have found someone who will love you unconditionally. He is my fault as i should have grabbed you and help on for dear life no matter what. I have only myself to blame. I must now live with the fact we will never be married and grow old together. God i hope I will get another chance.

Please forgive me for taking my eye off the ball. I was blinded and got too busy in life and forgot about what life was really all about. Life was about you and me and no one else. I let life's little annoyances get to me and all for what? Just to say I was right. What was I right about? I was wrong and I now now know it and if you hate me for it I do not blame you. As your man i had the responsibility to forgive unconditionally no matter what. I was suppose to be the protector of our relationship and love and because of this I feel I am not the man I thought I was.  I have let myself down as well as you. 

How can we move on from this? For me I am hoping that you will at least forgive me. What I really want is another chance but at minimum I am seeking your forgiveness. I was stupid and I know it. I know I never forgave you as I should have but i am hoping you will do it for me. If you were to give ma another chance I will spend everyday of our life making it up to you. 

If this is my last chance to say something to you then let me say this...... I am a better man for knowing you and being loved by you. I wish you the best and i hope you get all that life has to offer. I am sorry I lied.

Love,

Stupid Fool