In order to write a great i'm sorry love letter you must first start with actually being sorry. It is near impossible to let emotions flow through your pen or key strokes if you are faking it. To be able to truly harness the full effect of the letter we want to be as honest as possible and let that special someone know we are truly sorry. Love knows no boundaries. Love knows no pride. Loves knows no end and no beginning. Love just wants to be in both of your hearts. Let him or her know just how sorry you are for making a mess of things.
Besides truly being sorry we want to remain focused and organized. We want to clarify why we are sorry and what we could have done different. I have been in many of relationship fights and one thing I know for sure is usually both sides are wrong and I had my part in it. What we need to focus on for our sorry letter is what we did, and how we could have made it better, and why we want to make it better. Keep the problem solving on your side of the fence. If he or she cares, then they will focus on what they need to fix.
Remember, when we fight we need to not make it personal.We need to make this love letter very personal however. This is all about throwing up the white flag and asking for forgiveness. Remind them why you are asking for forgiveness with examples of your love. Do not hold back. We may only get one chance at saying we are sorry, so act like it is your last breath at life. Hold nothing back.
Speak with the softest of tongues and do not get ramped up. The fight or disagreement may still be fresh in your mind but we need to get rid of any animosity we may have still inside of us. The fight was where we tried making our point. The sorry love letter is where we have no point but to make things right. Tell him or her that being right does not matter. Stick to the side of him or her and not your own. When we fight sometimes we weaken trust. When this happens you become like a stranger to the other person. Our job in this letter is to regain that trust and make it stronger. Yes, believe it or not, you can actually come out of this stronger than you were, if you go about it right. This will only happen if you lay down your weapons and come out with hugs. We should have already of done this but if not, here is our chance.
Do not overkill the message with a bunch of pet names and gushy goo. Speak from the heart and be truthful. Do not just say what you think they wish to hear, but be genuine and realize you want to do this because it is for the good of both of you. Definitely let love pour through your letter, just do not let that be all your letter is about.
To write an effective i'm sorry love letter, we need to tell a genuine story of love and loyalty. We need to make it clear that the only right we are interested in, is the one that makes things right between us. Love will prevail if we nurture it and do not try to muscle it. Was what you were fighting about really worth it? Will it make a difference in a year? If it does then maybe you should not write this letter. If the fight will not matter in a year then fix it right now! Do not take a chance. I wish you well and I hope I have helped. Write me and let me know how it turns out.
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